HOW TO BOOST YOUR SELF ESTEEM AS A MOM
Everyday you have to boost your self esteem as a Mom. Everyday from they are toddlers, children challenge your self esteem. They fight your demands, they scream for ‘nothing’, they tell you horrible things. Your task is to keep your understanding of your self intact and positive.
1 Taking care of self
Parents need to take care of self-esteem and balance a “feel good” with responsibility and responsibility on both sides, while developing character in their children. Do this in a way that enables you to teach the children the skills they need, not only in the classroom but in life.
Taking care of yourself happens physically and mentally. Notice the words you use. Do you make sure your hygiene is up to standard. Do you have more than one child? Are you treating them equally or making one feel more important than the other. Keeping watch on all these areas means you are taking care of your self and your self esteem.
2. How does your self esteem fit in
As a Mom you have to react to your child’s outbursts and requests in a peaceful manner. Try using peaceful words and reasonable understanding. When you see that this brings the response that you need, your confidence builds. That’s what we call boosting your self esteem. Why? Repetition with good results means you are even more positive about yourself.
Every time your child faces a new problem, their ability to solve it is put to the test. Improving this activity is the first step to building children’s self-confidence. When your child solves a challenging and relevant problem, they feel good about themselves and their self-esteem improves.
A consequence is that you find it is easier to suggest alternatives and this means you are both in a better place.
Especially with teens and tweens, there are many factors that can affect their self-esteem, such as peer pressure, pressure from other parents and peers, and pressure from school. You need to find time to boost your self esteem all the time.
Boost your self esteem
As a Mom your responsibility is to find as many ways as possible to boost your own self confidence. Responding to your child’s spirit and accomplishments, such as taking their first steps, laughing at their jokes, or preparing for first dates,. all these help. Be confident in what you are doing. You will see the results grow daily.